It's Okay to Ask...

If you are concerned about the wellbeing of a student, it's okay to ask. 

It's Okay to Ask...

HOW TO BRING IT UP

It’s often a relief to students to know that people at the university notice and care.

  • Broach the subject in a caring, supportive way
  • Clearly express your concerns in non disparaging non confrontational terms.
  • Remind the student of their personal responsibility as a member of the community
  • Respect the student’s privacy but do not promise confidentiality

HOW TO TALK ABOUT IT

Whether you or a student broaches the topic, it is important to have privacy and some time without interruption.

  • Don’t minimize the problem or solve it too quickly with advice.
  • Let the student express emotion (often it has been building/bottled up)
  • Ask if the student has found anything to help with the problem.
  • Inquire about their support network

HOW TO REFER

  • The student situation may be beyond what you can address, but your support is still critical
  • Reassure student the decisions to seek/accept help is a wise choice and they are not alone
  • Offer to meet to ensure follow through
  • Refer to the CARE Team

 

Bridgewater State University (2021). Crisis Resources.
Retrieved January 15, 2021, from .